Floating in the Phishbowl

(via chels-e-lately)

drashion:

Please tell me this is kind of a joke… PLEASE… people really need to tell the difference between someone being a douche and misogyny. In the world of today if the big bad dude is a douche with other dudes, well, that’s wrong but normal; if the douche guy is a douche to a woman suddenly the entire male population is against women… Well damn it, and just for the record misogyny and misandry are both words that have been so misused they just lost true meaning.

I am a man, I believe women are people and I respect PEOPLE in general, the war of genders is something that goes beyond stupidity, something that the first women started with good intentions to have the same human rights of men (voting, freedom of speech, equality of environments) and that accomplished many good things but it has turned now to men a women waving a flag of victimhood even further than those first women did (with good reason back then),

Humans have become far too delicate and they believe that every opinion they do not agree upon is a direct attack on their feelings and rights (rights which are sometimes a delusion). The world should be a freedom of speech market of ideas, and as long as there is more than one human standing in existence there will be different opinions and that doesn’t mean the other person wants you to submit, or to hurt you.

Right now there is a fight that really has no head or tail, a fight just for fight because there are suppressed people in their own minds that can just afford to complain, rather than live their own lives and set the example by doing it.

The war is feminists against… well men (not all men I want to think but since I don’t have a name for a male movement like feminism I’ll call it like that).

Feminists, in their majority, are like religious fanatics, they complain about everything that doesn’t fit with their way to view the world and if you do not agree with them and debate them you suddenly turn out as a misogynistic fucker in their eyes. If you are a man and you say that you like submissive women, well you are not allowed to like women like that because you are then a male who wants to maintain the patriarchal power that domains the world right now (BULLSHIT), nope, you can’t like being in a relationship like that. What is funny is that if you like being a submissive woman, you are suddenly a weak link in their movement so they try to brain wash that submissive woman to take up arms and wave the flag against male population.

Now, it doesn’t stop there, I saw a quote the other day a quote in tumblr, which I cannot remember exactly but the essence is the same.

“I’m not a misogynist, I love strong willed women” – Misogynist.

So guess what, it turns that if you are man and you like (which is my case) strong willed women, that can stand up to anyone, stand up for themselves as much as being independent and that you can be in a equality, respect and loving relationship with her where you are conscious things go 50% - 50% because it’s a couple… you know TWO persons … then well, in their eyes you also hate women, you hate them so much you trait them equally and you like them to be assertive. (One friend of mine told me that the quote was because of the I LIKE WOMEN fact treating them as objects, so I guess you are not allowed either to like something about a female human because you are treating them as objects, you know, if you have a mind of your own you are also a misogynist).

So the only thing left, and that I haven’t seen any feminist complain about is a relationship with a submissive man (which is okay if both parties want it that way but seems the only right way to feminists [I STATE AGAIN I’M TALKING IN A GENERAL WAY, IF YOU CAN FIT IN THE PLACE THEN FIT IF NOT THEN BRAVO]).

This kind of “dark intentions” can be found all around this movement and in the majority of it (In my experience at least), if I list them I wouldn’t even finish.

Now let’s go with that majority of the male part, because males are not free of sin.

Males are not fanatics because is not a movement or an organization or anything like that, and they are not fanatics because this is so popular that is confused with common sense, but the majority tend to think that women owe them for some reason and, ironically, are the usual crying little bitches when they find a woman that can stand on their own.

The most common and usual complain you will hear from a male mouth is the famous friendzoning, in which a woman wishes nothing more than a friendship with a guy that has been trying to pierce her heart with a cupid arrow without any success.

These dudes tend to be polite, very friendly and helpful towards that women and when they finally tell this girl about their feelings which are nor reciprocal they demonize this woman as an evil being who never saw all the good they did to her.

Well, let me just say that if you demand (I will not say expect, because expectations are 90% of the time the fuel to our actions, and expecting it’s okay as long as you are humble enough to accept defeat) sex, love or anything for being a good person, then you are not a good person. You are someone playing an act to get something, a passive aggressive douche that will turn to a total asshole when you don’t get what you want. Also a crying little bitch that cannot stand up for himself or who’s ego is so far in the fantasy realm of Narnia that you think women actually owe you something, or people at all. Nobody owns anyone anything, accept defeat and say thank you, remain a friend or walk away, whatever but nobody, not anyone, not life, not earth not animals owe you shit, get that straight and grow some balls.

And that is just one of the many things wrong with the majority of male population too.

All and all, the war is senseless. Feminism does not pray for gender equality, no matter what you say it doesn’t, feminism is the delusion of getting gender equality by protesting and solving the problems of only one of them, so no, is not gender equality. Never in my life I have seen a video where feminists complain about their usual as much as how the majority of women see the male figure as a bank account or something like it. We both have problems that need solving but for solving everything we need to understand something, something that is not backed up by made up social morality or opinions, something backed up by sciene.

MEN AND WOMEN ARE FUCKING DIFFERENT.

No matter from where you see it we are different, and we think differently because the neurons in our brains connect differently, men watch breasts because the pheromones compel them too, women are complicated in their thinking because their brain chemistry it’s made so, men do the lifting because the muscle mass tend to be greater for men, women usually take care of children because their maternal instinct tend to be far more stronger than the paternal instinct of men and that’s by mere biology. I’m not saying that if you are a women you shouldn’t go on and do the lifting if you want to do the motherfuking lifting, I’m not saying either that if you are a man and you want to be the one that stays at home to take care of the children you can’t do it; but we have to keep in mind that we are different and as a man you cannot demand the whole women population to have a more simple way of thinking, nor you can, as a woman, demand that any men in the world shall have a look at you when you walk by the street, and that’s what the war of genders asks for, it asks for defiance of our own human nature.

If you are a man who wants a dominant woman go look for one, don’t blame al the females for not being so and if you are a woman that wants to be the provider of the household in a successful career then get out there and find a guy that wants the same but do not wage war on every men just because not every men wants to stay at home.

There is no such thing as equality of gender, because we are not equal, but we can demand equality of rights which we all deserve, from there we can defend our right to play the role we desire in society, independent of the gender, but we cannot make both genders equal, even less every human equal because there is a different world on each head.

Wow. Somebody got it right. I wish I could have said it like this.